Biography

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 Stephen Grosz is a practising psychoanalyst – he has worked with patients for more than forty years. 
 
Born in America, he was educated at the University of California, Berkeley, and at Oxford University, and now lives in London. His Number One Sunday Times bestseller, The Examined Life, has been translated into more than thirty languages. 
 
Love’s Labor is published by Random House.

Selected Interviews

New York Times Interview

New York Times Interview
A Psychoanalyst Lets Us Eavesdrop Stephen Grosz’s books show a new generation the inner workings of psychoanalysis. By Daphne Merkin March 3, 2026 To many of us, what goes on in analysis or psychotherapy remains a well-guarded mystery, and its practitioners mythical creatures, bearers of special wisdom — or, if we are skeptical enough about the profession’s effectiveness, like Wizards of Oz behind the curtain. In his new book, “Love’s ...

NPR: Stephen talks to Ayesha Rascoe

NPR: Stephen talks to Ayesha Rascoe
Ayesha Rascoe talks with psychoanalyst Stephen Grosz about his new book, "Love's Labor: How We Break and Make the Bonds of Love." ...

How to Fail with Elizabeth Day

How to Fail with Elizabeth Day
Love is going to hurt: Stephen talks to Elizabeth Day of "How to Fail" about his most recent book "Love's Labour" Stephen Grosz is a practising psychoanalyst and a personal hero of mine. He has worked with patients for more than 45 years and his first book, The Examined Life, drew on these experiences. When it was published in 2013, it caused a sensation and went straight to number one ...